Not because someone is at fault. Because that argument isn't about what you argue over.
What pulled you together is usually also what grates now. Your two birth dates show which of the two is at work in your case.
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Source: Dr John Gottman, forty years of research on couples. 69% of all relationship conflict is perpetual.
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These aren't separate arguments. This is one pattern repeating itself.
69% of what couples discuss never gets resolved. Not because they try too little — because they are discussing the wrong thing.
Your birth dates. Nothing else is needed.
Which of the 45 combinations sits between the two of you — and why it grates.
What you do about it. Or that you stop. Both are an answer.
It's whether you can call the recurring conflict by its name.
After Gottman: couples who name their recurring conflict and accept it are more often satisfied years later than couples who avoid it. The lines depict that finding — they are not a prediction about you.
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The date only — you don't need a birth time. In numerology the day itself is what counts.
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